ok so i know that i tend to bitch about my flat mate alot but i doesnt mean i dont care.
last night we went to the pub, just a casual drink and a catch up. so it shouldnt be a big deal....wrong. i come home from work and the first thing she says is she has nothing to wear. she has lots of nice clothes but her issue is that she doesnt look nice in any of them, which is complete crap. i know we all have issues with our apperance but this is like a major issue, so much so that sometimes she doesnt go out.....in fact other than work she rarely goes out at all.
ive been reading a book about BDD. now i know my flat mate is not as servere as the girl im reading about but there are some major similarities.
if i say anything nice about her then i must be lying. she cannot except a compliment, she just thinks that your being patronising. she looks in the mirror constantly but not in a vain way. she will have some spots, i dunno say two little ones on her chin and to her they are massive and everbody must be looking at them,to be honest she puts so much makeup on that u cant even see them.she also feels that people only look at her because they cant believe how ugly she is. she also told me that shes really surprises that she hasnt crashed on the way to work as she checks her apperance in the mirror every 5 seconds.
when we went out last night all i did was touch my make up up and brush my hair and pick the nearest outfit and i got soaked on the way home and was like a drowned wet. she completely redid her make up and spent about 2 hours worrying about what to wear!
thats not right, is it???
